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My Ideal Clients - an Inventory & a Spell

The other day, my coach urged me to get really clear on who and what kind of person I wanted to work with as a coach/healer. I’ve done this exercise for dating (and landed myself a wonderful partner last Fall!) , but I’d never considered it for calling in my idea clients!

I decided to sit down with myself and visualize/feel into all of the qualities I felt would make a good fit for someone ready to work with me professionally. I did this with a pen, and in my Big Journal. First, I noticed the qualities coming up for folx I don’t want to work with… that felt MUCH easier! But since this is a practice of CALLING IN, I dug a little deeper and asked myself, “What would be the opposite of this quality, or the positive version of this quality?” Once I got into the flow of this, the list unfolded before my eyes faster than my hands could even keep up with!

Without further adieu, I present to you, a description of My Ideal Clients:

  • Understands the value of coaching

  • Happily pays my current full rate, for 1:1 or group coaching

  • Is committed to achieving their goals

  • Is ready to heal their money and/or worthiness stories

  • Understands the concept of “yes &” or wants to learn

  • Leans IN when they feel fearful and resistant

  • Does not seek permission from a partner or parent to do their work & live their dreams

  • Asks for help when they’re feeling stuck

  • Willing to invest in themselves

  • Wants to unlock their creative potential & expression

  • Is willing to get curious about their resistances

  • Has done work on themselves and takes full responsibility for their feelings and responses to whatever life gives them

  • Actively practices clear communication

  • Shows up on time for our appointments

  • Rarely needs to reschedule an appointment

  • Honors their time with me

  • Is down for meditative and creative practices during our sessions

  • Already meditates regularly, or would like to start practicing meditation

  • Will commit to working with me for at least 6 months

  • Knows in their heart they are meant for something extraordinary

  • Is 10/10 committed to stepping onto their path of making changes in their life toward their dreams

  • Says YES to themselves

  • Gets curious about the unknown; goes for it anyway 

  • Explores opportunity with an open heart and mind, even when the next step feels like stepping over a cliff

  • Prefers to spend time in the Growth & Learning Zone

  • Is ready and willing to take action

  • Takes the next step, even if the next step has yet to be revealed

  • Has developed emotional maturity

  • Is reliable and dependable

  • Stands up for themselves

  • Responds to my messages and outreach

  • Believes in community over competition

  • Has a moderate interest or active practice in woo

  • Doesn’t try to kiss people who aren’t trying to kiss them!

Have I missed anything? Is there something you might add if you had crafted an Ideal Clients list?

Let me know in the comments!

AND, if this list describes YOU, it’s probably time for us to start working together… like yesterday! Let’s get on the phone QUICK and see what kind of magic we can create!!! To schedule an appointment, click here.